My grandmother never ordered her own meal at restaurants. She knew us kids wouldn’t finish ours, so she just ate what was left. I didn’t realize until this week how that pattern was still living in me and affecting my manifestations.
This episode started with something small. Someone told me not to rush sending them what I had promised, and I noticed myself slowing down even though I was excited to send it. That tiny moment cracked open something much bigger. I talk about why being the accommodating one can actually slow down manifestation, the generational belief I’m rewiring that says my needs come after everyone else’s, what happened the day I demanded something of the universe instead of patiently waiting and what that taught me about the difference between fear and power, and why giving from overflow is so different than giving from breadcrumbs.
This one is uncomfortable to share. Stating out loud that I want my needs met first still makes part of me feel selfish. But I don’t think that story is true anymore, and I don’t think it’s true for you either.
If you’ve spent your life as the easy one, the caretaker, the one who waits until everyone else is served, this episode might be the permission you’ve been waiting to give yourself.
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